Female DJ Reports Mistreatment at Malate Bar
A female DJ, who has performed at prestigious venues such as the Intercontinental and Four Seasons Hotels in China, and for high-profile clients, recently had a negative experience at a bar in Bellagio Square, Malate, Philippines. The incident highlights concerns about the treatment of DJs and artists in the entertainment industry.
The Incident
The DJ, who wishes to remain anonymous, was filling in for a friend. Her performance impressed the bar owner, who even filmed a portion of her set. One of the owner’s female companions also complimented the DJ’s music. However, a middle-aged man in the owner’s party behaved inappropriately. He repeatedly called the DJ in a disrespectful manner, similar to how one would call a dog, and made repeated song requests directly at the DJ booth.
While the DJ initially complied with a request from the owner to play reggae, the man’s behavior escalated after the owner left. He interrupted the DJ’s set, demanding she remove her personal drink from the booth, claiming drinks weren’t allowed. Despite the DJ’s polite request for time to finish the current transition, the man reacted angrily, shouting at the DJ to remove her drink.
Staff removed the DJ’s drink. After a short time, they returned it, which resulted in another outburst from the man. He then demanded the DJ stop her performance and leave. The DJ calmly explained the situation, mentioning that she had permission to have her drink, yet the man continued to berate her. Eventually, to de-escalate the situation, the DJ ended her set and packed up her equipment.
The club fell silent for about 30 minutes. Several patrons approached the DJ, expressing concern about the sudden interruption to her performance. After the DJ explained what had happened, some patrons were ready to confront the man; however, the DJ requested they not do so. Many guests then left the venue.
Aftermath and Response
The bar staff apologized to the DJ both that night and the next day. The DJ’s friend, the resident DJ, also contacted her to offer support. The bar permanently banned the man, who is a friend of the owner, due to a history of similar inappropriate and drunken behavior.
The DJ regrets giving in to the man’s anger, but stood her ground due to her pride in her profession. By sharing her story, she hopes to prevent similar incidents from happening to other artists.
The Need for Respect and Industry Reform
This incident underscores the importance of treating DJs and artists with respect. Venues must establish a safe and respectful environment for both performers and patrons. This incident is likely to spark further discussions and hopefully lead to industry-wide reforms to ensure fair and respectful treatment for all.
What to Do If You Experience Mistreatment
- Report the incident to the establishment’s management or a relevant industry organization.
- Consider filing a police report.
- Remember that you have a right to respectful treatment.
Creating a Safe Environment
- Establishments should have clear policies to protect DJs and artists.
- Train staff to recognize and respond to mistreatment.
- Educate patrons on the importance of respecting artists.
Disclaimer: The DJ’s name and other identifying information have been withheld to protect her from further harassment or harm.
Read also: 13 Asian Female DJs Forging the Future of Electronic Music
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