Filipina Female DJ Rejects Harassment, Demands Equality in the Music Industry
The music industry, while diversifying, still presents significant challenges for female DJs. A Filipina DJ recently shared her experience of receiving an inappropriate invitation to perform at a bachelor party. The invitation, offering a talent fee of 15,000 pesos, stipulated that she attend alone in a hotel room with 15 men. This incident highlights the ongoing issue of sexism and harassment faced by women in the industry.
In an interview, the DJ expressed her feelings of disrespect and belittlement. She stated, “I felt disrespected and belittlement. Not being OA here but it just annoys me whenever female DJs are being viewed as females who are ‘easy to get’ just because we are always in the drinking and party scene. This is a perfect example of how being a DJ (more so a female DJ) is not viewed as a ‘professional job.’ It’s just sad and I hope the industry can do something about it.”
The Pervasiveness of Harassment
This situation is not isolated to the DJ world. Women across numerous professions encounter similar sexism and discrimination. The DJ emphasized the importance of self-preservation, stating, “it’s up to us to do our own fair share of screening clients, and only accepting gigs that are not just fun but also SAFE. Let’s be smart and aware at all times.”
Taking a Stand Against Harassment
Following the incident, the DJ publicly shared screenshots of the conversation on her social media to raise awareness among other female DJs. She also alerted industry contacts, providing the perpetrator’s phone number. The number proved inactive upon contact, suggesting the individual recognized the gravity of their actions.
The DJ powerfully stated, “female DJs are not disrespected because of what we wear and how we act – we are disrespected because some boys choose to be a**h*les. It’s never right to disrespect a female DJ or all women in general just because she party, drinks and have fun. Don’t also use the ‘she wears a sexy outfit hence she will be disrespected’ card. We can wear whatever we want and shall not be seen as prey. Period.”
Advice for Other Female DJs
Her advice to other women facing similar situations is clear and direct: “only surround yourself with men who act like men and not childish boys. Whenever you feel like you are getting a ‘wrong offer,’ just say NO. Saying NO is difficult, especially when the talent fee is high, but we only live once. Prioritize your safety at all times.”
Creating a Culture of Respect
This story underscores the persistent challenges women face in male-dominated industries. Prioritizing safety and respect is paramount. Women must feel empowered to reject situations that compromise their well-being. Building an environment where women are respected and valued in all professions, including DJing, is crucial.
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